Jerry first noticed changes in his wife’s behavior in 2016 and knew there was something that wasn’t quite right. At the time of his wife’s diagnosis, Jerry knew little about Alzheimer’s disease and even less about how to care for someone living with it.
That’s when Jerry took the first step and found Alzheimer’s Orange County (AlzOC).
Through AlzOC, Jerry found community, and the help he needed in a local support group hosted by the organization. It was there he found guidance from other people just like him – those who understood what it means to be a caregiver and the challenges it brings. “They know firsthand the struggles you’re facing,” Jerry said.
In this video, Jerry shares his journey with Alzheimer’s and the impact of AlzOC’s support groups.
Many men may struggle to reach out or feel nervous about participating in programs like a support group. That hesitation is common. Jerry was no exception. He didn’t know exactly what he needed, but he knew support and resources would be essential. After joining the support group, he immediately felt a sense of belonging and comfort. “I can talk to other men going through the same journey and experiencing the same things,” Jerry said. Being among others who understood his journey helped Jerry learn new skills and strategies to better care for his wife.
Even more comforting to Jerry was discovering that it wasn’t just about a support group, there was an entire organization dedicated to families like his. When asked what he found most impactful about AlzOC’s work, he explained: “The idea that there’s an organization out there that is 100% committed to whatever this disease leads us to. We know there’s going to be more people needing this service.”
Jerry’s experience as his wife’s caregiver has brought challenges, but also strength and growth. With support from Alzheimer’s Orange County, he no longer faces that path alone. His story is a powerful reminder that even the hardest challenges can be met with courage, compassion, and hope when you’re surrounded by the right community.
Caring for someone with memory loss, such as Alzheimer’s doesn’t have to be faced alone. For additional support, call our helpline at 844-373-4400 or visit www.alzoc.org.
